I sat down with a young lady not too long ago and had a conversation. This was a conversation about faith—her faith. Better put, this was a conversation about a faith that once was and is no more. She was a very interesting and bright lady—inquisitive, well-read, and very suspicious. She began by telling me that she was a Christian (past tense) and had since left the faith. Christ was once a part of her confession, but, as she recounted to me, after a long voyage of not finding sufficient answers for her doubts, she believes that she had no choice but to follow her own integrity and renounce Christ all together. I asked her what her problems were and she became very emotional. It was like I represented Christianity and she was ready to take it all out on me.

Ignorance. Pity. Shame. These are all good descriptions of what she thought of Christianity. But the primary description that I felt coming from here was “betrayal.” She had been betrayed by the Church because they duped her into a belief not unlike that of the tooth fairy. When she discovered this “betrayal”, no one had a valid answer or excuse. So she left. She is now an unbeliever—a soon-to-be evangelistic unbeliever no doubt. She was at such a point in this process that no matter what I said, she was not open to listen.

One fascination, obsession, and focus (neurotic impulse?) I have in my life and ministry is with regard to those, like this young lady, who leave the faith. I’m sure you have noticed this. I have well over a dozen books giving autobiographical sketches of those who once proclaimed to be Christian and are now evangelistic atheists, agnostics, or skeptics, with their goal to convert or, rather, unconvert others. I have been in contact with many people who either have already left or are on the verge of leaving in the form of emails, phone calls and visits in person.

No, it is not a neurotic impulse. I believe that it is the recognition of an extremely serious issue that we are facing today. We are facing an epidemic in Christianity—an epidemic of unbelief among our own. Crowding our churches are those who are somewhere in the process of leaving. No, I am not talking about leaving a denomination. I am not talking about abandoning some institutionalized expression of Christianity. I am not talking about leaving the church (though related). And I am not even talking about renouncing religion. I am talking about those who are leaving Christ. (And this is coming from a Calvinist who does not believe that the truly elect will ever leave).

Over 31 million Americans are saying “check please” to the church, and are off to find answers elsewhere. Jeff Schadt, coordinator of Youth Transition Network, says thousands of youth fall away from the church when transitioning from high school to college. He and other youth leaders estimate that 65 to 94 percent of high school students stop attending church after graduating. From my studies and experience I find that leaving church is many times the first visible step in one’s pilgrimage away from Christ.

The question that we must ask is a very simple one: Why? Why are people leaving the faith at this epidemic and alarming rate? In my studies, I have found the two primary reasons people leave the faith are 1) intellectual challenges and 2) bad theology or misplaced beliefs.

First, I want to explain this transition process, focusing on the first: intellectual challenges. You might even find yourself somewhere on this journey.

Step one: Doubt
Step two: Discouragement
Step three: Disillusionment
Step four: Apathy
Step five: Departure

Step One: Doubt

Here is where the person begins to examine his or her faith more critically by asking questions, expressing concerns, and becoming transparent with their doubt. This doubt is not wholesale, but expresses an inner longing to have questions answered and the intellect satisfied to some degree. Normally this person will inquire of mentors in the faith, requesting an audience for their doubt. There are many reasons for the onset of this doubt. Here are the three that are primary:

Maturation: Much of the time it comes from simple maturation. People grow and begin to ask serious questions about their beliefs and that of their parents. It is the stage of intellectual maturation in which discernment becomes strong. 

Intellectual challenges: Often, the doubt comes from intellectual challenges. Challenges to the Bible’s reliability. Challenges from science. Challenges to the very need for a belief in God. Tonight, Bart Erhman is speaking at the Sam Noble Museum at the University of Oklahoma. I am sure that he will challenge many of the college students intellectually, causing some of them to question their faith in the Scriptures.

Experiential challenges: These type of challenges come from God’s actions (or lack thereof) in our lives. This is exemplified by prayers that don’t get answered, the apparent silence of God in a person’s experience, or (and related to the former) a tragedy out of which you or someone else was not rescued.

Any one of these (or all three together) can be the catalyst in someone’s journey away from Christianity.

Step Two: Discouragement

This is where the person becomes frustrated because they are not finding the answers. They ask questions but the answer (or lack thereof) causes them discouragement. Their church tells them that such questions are “unchristian.” Their Sunday school teacher says, “I don’t know. You just have to believe.” Others simply say, “That’s a good question, I have never thought of it before,” and then go on their way on their own leap-of-faith journey.

This causes great discouragement in the life of the person as they begin to see that their questions and concerns are legitimate enough not to have an answer among those who should. “Are others scared of these questions? If so, why?” are the thoughts of the doubter.

Step Three: Disillusionment

Now the person begins to become disillusioned with Christianity in general and proceeds to doubt much more deeply. They feel betrayed by those who made them believe the story about Christ and the Bible. They feel that much of their former faith was naive since not even their most trusted mentors could (or would) answer basic questions about the Bible, history, or faith. In their thinking the intellect has become legitimized and the church is therefore an illegitimate contender for their mind. Once the mind has been lost, the turn has been made. They may still be emotionally routing for their former faith, but it will soon pass as their intellect will talk them out of their emotional conviction. This is a very sad place for the leaver as they realize that they are truly leaving. They will go through a long period of depression and indecisiveness here.

Step Four: Apathy

At this point in the journey, the disillusioned Christian becomes apathetic to finding the answers, believing that the answers don’t exist. They are firmly on their way to atheism, agnosticism, or pure skepticism but don’t have the courage to admit it to themselves or others. Many times those in this stage live as closet unbelievers, believing it is not worth it to come clean about their departure from the faith. They want a peaceful existence in their unbelief without creating controversy. Therefore, they are content to remain closet unbelievers. For some, this helps them to deal with the depression that their loss of faith has afforded. If they are never honest with themselves or others about it, they don’t have to deal with it.

However, not everyone stays in the apathy stage.

Step Five: Departure

Here is where I meet this young lady I told you about. (Really, she was somewhere in-between apathy and departure.) At this stage the fact that they have left the faith has become real to them and they are willing to announce it to the world. Because of their sense of betrayal, they feel as if it is their duty to become evangelists for the cause of unbelief. Their goal and mission becomes to unconvert the converted.

This is the stage that Bart Erhman is in as he speaks tonight. His zeal is his sense of betrayal. Either he feels that he has to legitimize his departure by taking as many along with him as he can or he is truly attempting to help people quit living a lie out of true concern. Either way, his emotional commitment to Christianity is gone and reversed. He is now an Evangelist for unbelief.

“I don’t really even care what you have to say to me,” she told me that day. “I just don’t believe anymore and there is nothing anyone can do about it.” As I thought about this young lady, only one thing keeps coming to mind: how was she a part of the church for so long without the church ever engaging her on these issues. You see, her issues were numerous, but foundational. She doubted the resurrection of Christ, the inspiration, inerrancy, canon of Scripture, and the historicity of the Christian faith in general. If the church had legitimized her questions during the doubting phase and truly engaged her from an intellectual front I can’t help but think, from a human point of view, things might have been different. But once she reaches the point of apathy, this seems to be a point of no return.

Folks, we have a lot on our job description. But rooting people theologically by presenting the intellectual viability of the Evangelical faith must be top on the priority list and it must come early. While I understand this is not all there is to the Christian faith, it is an absolute vital part of discipleship and foundational to everything else.

Everyone will go through the doubt phase. Everyone should ask questions about the faith. If you have not asked the “How do you know . . .” questions about the message of the Gospel, this is not a good thing. We should be challenged to think through these questions early in the faith. The Church needs to rethink its education program. Expositional preaching, while very important, is not enough. Did you hear that? Expositional preaching is not enough. It does not provide the discipleship venue that is vital for us to prevent and overcome this epidemic. We should not fool ourselves into thinking that it does.

The church has been on an intellectual diet for the last century and we are suffering from theological atrophy. What else do you expect when we have replaced theological discipleship with a gluttonous promotion of entertainment, numbers, and fast-food Christianity that can produce nothing more than a veneer of faith seasoned for departure?

The solution: to reform our educational program in the church. To lay theological foundations through critical thinking. To understand that the great commission is to make disciples, not simply converts. And most importantly, we must pray that God will grant a revival of the mind knowing that without the power of the Holy Spirit, no amount of intellectual persuasion can change an antagonistic heart.

Without these, the epidemic of leaving Christ will only worsen. We will have more evangelists of unbelief than we do the Gospel.

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C. Michael Patton is the primary contributor to the Parchment and Pen/Credo Blog. He has been in ministry for nearly twenty years as a pastor, author, speaker, and blogger. Find him on Patreon Th.M. Dallas Theological Seminary (2001), president of Credo House Ministries and Credo Courses, author of Now that I'm a Christian (Crossway, 2014) Increase My Faith (Credo House, 2011), and The Theology Program (Reclaiming the Mind Ministries, 2001-2006), host of Theology Unplugged, and primary blogger here at Parchment and Pen. But, most importantly, husband to a beautiful wife and father to four awesome children. Michael is available for speaking engagements. Join his Patreon and support his ministry

    190 replies to "“How People Become Evangelists of Unbelief” or Leaving (Christ)ianity – An Evangelical Epidemic"

    • ScottL

      I was blessed to see a young man in our church who grew in his faith through all his questions (many unanswered). I was able to baptise him not even 2 months ago, as he had never been baptised.

      Thanks for sharing, CMP.

    • EricW

      But rooting people theologically by presenting the intellectual viability of the Evangelical faith must be top on the priority list and it must come early. While I understand this is not all there is to the Christian faith, it is an absolute vital part of discipleship and foundational to everything else.

      But many of the anti-testimonies I’ve read of people who have left the faith say that this was a reason they left the faith. Not that no one had ever presented them (whether in person or in print) with the intellectual viability of the Evangelical faith, but that such presentations ended up convincing them that the Evangelical faith could not withstand rigorous intellectual inquiry, nor make a rigorous intellectual case for itself.

      Even the NT authors founded their converts’ faith on their personal witness/testimony and demonstrations of the Spirit and power, testifying to them of a God who uses the foolish things of the world to confound the wise, and the things that are not to nullify the things that are.

      Appeals to Scripture, appeals to their personal experience of Jesus and His fulfillment of those Scriptures, and appeals to their personal experiences of God’s power in Jesus Christ and in their own midst.

      But demonstrations of the intellectual viability of Christianity?

    • Rick

      From Out of Ur when it discussed one of the studies:

      “This is sobering news that the church needs to change the way it does ministry,” says Ed Stetzer who directed the study. “It seems the teen years are like a free trial on a product. By 18, when it’s their choice whether to buy in to church life, many don’t feel engaged and welcome,” says the associate director Scott McConnell…..Part of the problem, says Stetzer, is the way many churches organize their student ministries. “Too many youth groups are holding tanks with pizza. There’s no life transformation taking place,” he says. “People are looking for a faith that can change them and to be a part of changing the world.” It seems spiritual formation, not just spiritual entertainment, may be what young people are seeking from a church.”

    • Truth Unites... and Divides

      “But rooting people theologically by presenting the intellectual viability of the Evangelical faith must be top on the priority list and it must come early.”

      I don’t disagree.

      But I wonder if there might be another vital factor at play, and that the “intellectual viability” excuse is simply a smokescreen for it.

    • EricW

      I have well over a dozen books giving autobiographical sketches of those who once proclaimed to be Christian and are now evangelistic atheists, agnostics, or skeptics, with their goal to convert or, rather, unconvert others.

      FWIW, if you’re interested in this topic, you don’t have to spend money on buying books to learn why Christians have left the faith, including those who have known and even preached the intellectual viability of Evangelical Christianity. There are many free ex-christian sites on the Web where former believers and missionaries and preachers and seminarians and plain old folks give their anti-testimonies and explain – sometimes at great length and with great anguish – why they left the faith. Just Google.

    • Ed Kratz

      You guys are right that there must be a broader engagement in the lives of these people as well as fellowship that is deep into the lives of these people, but as I said in the blog, there are two primary things I have seen and I have studied this like a mad dog for nearly ten years: (non)experience with God and intellectual challenges.

      With both of these, the issue fails because the foundation of their faith was never really laid. This foundation is not more or even different types of experience, but a discipleship of the mind, legitimizing and answering questions. And I am not talking about traditional apologetics (as important as this is in many ways), but theological development and the formation of a Christian philosophy of truth and learning. Good answers without teaching people how to think fails as well. Lots of people have the right answers for the wrong reasons.

    • cherylu

      I’m wondering about something. I haven’t read these articles and books that you folks have been talking about. But I would like to know if the rest of you have seen the epidemic I have seen in churches of just plain not caring for each other on a day to day basis or very often, even in the midst of a huge crisis. And Christian people can often be extremely cruel to those that are their brothers and sisters. Is this stated among reasons for people leaving the faith? It can be an extremely discouraging thing in a group of people that are supposed to be known for their love for one another. It seems to me that if one is doubting already, experiencing some of this could be something that could very easily help drive someone away altogether.

    • Jim W.

      CMP,

      I’m curious about this woman. Did she relate that her dissatisfaction was with the people of the church or with Christ himself? For example, did she indicate that she believed Jesus was alive today and desired a personal relationship with her or was that an example of how the church had deceived her?

    • Ed Kratz

      Eric, yes, I have been to them all for a long time. Here is an interesting one that never really got much traction, but was a really good idea by some evangelical Christians: http://www.lettersfromleavers.com. This blog, because of people’s knowledge that I deal with this, is filled with “leavers.” I am in contact with dozens of them all the time.

      In my “counseling” of these people, I have found that there are gapping holes in their faith that have always been present. Just recently I conversed with a pastor who had been in the pulpit for 30 years. He was in the process of leaving. In the end, we discovered that he had never really been convinced that Christ was who he said he was and rose from the grave. After some time of talking, he is back in the pulpit with his confidence back with a strong conviction that Christ was who he said he did raise from the grave. This was the catalyst of his (non)conviction which he, for 30 years, never knew was (not) there!

      We need to challenge people early in these areas, not assuming that they believe simply because they think they do. I know that sounds odd, but with as many people who are “coming clean” with their unbelief, we need to learn and understand why we are facing these problems.

    • Joshua Allen

      I appreciate the importance of theology, but I’m skeptical of the assumption that these people are truly leaving the Church because their intellectual questions weren’t answered.

      I know tons of these “militantly atheist ex-Christians”, and they often say that their departure from Christ is based on rational considerations. But what else would they say? Do you expect them to say that it was irrational? They’re smart enough, and have lived around Christians long enough, to know that any pastor or other “concerned citizen” will latch onto any irrational motive and judge/belittle them for it. So the only way to protect yourself from “concerned citizens” is to claim that it was purely based on reason, while simultaneously refusing to listen.

      Luckily, humans are great at inventing rationalizations. It’s instinctual.

      In cases where I know the ex-Christian really well, and I’ve either witnessed the falling away process over a period of years, or had them open up to me, “intellectual assent” was never the main issue. There’s always a process, where the person eventually stops looking for reasons to believe, and starts looking for reasons to disbelieve. There are often emotional incidents along the way, often a sense of betrayal or “being duped”. But it’s not “duped” in an intellectual sense.

    • Frank!

      To what extent can we say that the people leaving were never saved? As a Calvinist, I’m sure this isn’t lost you. At the same time, I would think that part of our testimony is “tearing down strongholds” as Paul wrote. For me, it was not only intellectual answers (via many books on apologetics and great teachers) but also an experience of the faith (I read a lot on prayer and spent much time in prayer). I have to add, that I am still convicted that we need better teaching in today’s churches.

    • Ed Kratz

      Cheryl,

      You are talking about a “back door” policy at the local church level. What you say is the biggest reason why people leave the local church (not getting connected in a real way).

      It is different then what is going on when people leave Christianity all-together.

      In fact, we have a lot of good churches out there that have many ways to connect people and people become life-long happy members, but are never convicted of the truths of that which they fellowship under! Good connection and nice people with connection does not make a strong faith, only a strong fellowship. This can be found in any fellowship which seeks to connect people, not just Christian.

      However, these type of things make the situation worse as the church is facillitating enought to keep the people happy, yet never exhorting its people to a firm intellectual conviction of the faith. People in these cases never recognize their lack of being truly converted.

    • PastorAarn

      I had many experiences like this in my faith. I grew up in Charismatic churches and could tell you anything you wanted to know about why you should tithe and the importance of good relationships but I couldn’t begin to give a coherent explanation of the gospel.
      I couldn’t explain the Trinity, why I was a Christian, if Jesus was God, man or some mixture, what someone needed to do if they wanted to be saved or a host of other questions. I was never going to walk away from Christ but I sure wasn’t getting the answers I needed.
      That’s why I am so thankful for programs like The Theology Program that educate the laity (and the pastors) on the foundations of the faith. I just wish I had gotten that teaching earlier in my walk from the pulpit.

    • Ed Kratz

      Frank,

      This lady expressed a firm measure of betrayal. It was the “tooth fairy” mentality that I see so often today. “It was never really true and everyone kept saying it was. Christians are all deceived.” Bible contradictions, other resurrection theories, and the absence of God were her major problems.

      She just wanted to argue about the particulars (which, in this cases, I rarely do). I wanted her to get involved in Prolegomena (our Introduction to Theology class) to help rewire some things first. Sound-bite apologetics hardly ever work here. She needs to change the entire way she approaches her search and the assumptions that she has about Christianity and the naivety of Christians needed to be broken down. These things, unfortunately, take a long time.

    • Joshua Allen

      For example, a girl who was raised IFB and believed that pants or short skirts on girls were an abomination to God, experienced an increasing sense of dissonance as every one of her classmates in Junior high wore pants or short skirts. Some of these classmates even claimed to be Christian, so she knew that the “rules” about Christianity are debatable. She was shy and unpopular, and embarrassed all the time. By the time she started to realize that pants might *not* be an abomination, she no longer had an anchor. It was only then that she started to question core doctrines.

      The problem with engaging here theologically at that point is that she no longer trusted reason — or at least no longer trusts *Christians* to wield reason appropriately. Her father was able to “reason” that pants were an abomination, or “reason” abusing her mother, and so on.

      The problem was *not* that she had questions about core doctrines. The questions were the symptoms. The problem was that her father made her go to school looking like a fool, in the name of God, and then tried to batter her with “reason” when she tried to rebel. Most of these people have questions *because* they’ve been betrayed, and the response of Christians has always been to talk their ears off to try to “persuade” them back.

      I could go on and on; every example I know of has a similar basic theme. Take for example the kids of YEC parents. That’s a recipe for disastrously angry ex-Christians, and it really has almost nothing to do with theology.

      Nobody leaves the fold over bickering on trinity or resurrection; it’s always because of these wacko fringe things that end up leaving the children looking like embarrassed fools. The solution to the problem is for parents and pastors to be more authentically Christian rather than imposing their idolatry on their children.

    • cherylu

      CMP,

      I don’t think we are talking about exactly the same thing here. I don’t think there is probably a way to explain it so it makes sense to anyone that hasn’t seen this in action. Someone recently commented to me about a situation she had been in, “My unsaved friends would never think of treating someone the way these Christians have treated people.”

      Over the years I have been in situations and heard from others that are in situations where other people in the church are just so caught up in their own little worlds that there just doesn’t seem to be time for anyone else or for anyone else’s needs. There just doesn’t seem to be real Christian love practiced at all and sometimes there is down right nastiness and cruelty to each other.

      And I didn’t say this is the biggest reason people leave. I just wondered if it was listed as a reason.

      And while it can certainly be a reason people leave a particular church body, what I am wondering is if people list this as a reason for leaving Christianity altogether. Can the lack of love between Christian people cause a person to doubt the reality of Christianity altogether to the place where they give up completely?

    • Ed Kratz

      Joshua,

      From a certian perspective, I would be inclined to agree with you. I mean from a theological standpoint, ever unbeliever ultimately is an unbeliever because they are dead in their sins and unable to turn from this. The Holy Spirit is the only reason why anyone is a believer.

      However, we do have to look at this from a human perspective and how these things are playing out. The symptoms are often the primary way that the Holy Spirit works through us to change people. Just like the presentation of the Gospel. We could present the Gospel in a language people did not understand and say “If the Holy Spirit is here, it will work.” Or we could just not present the Gospel at all, knowing that God will accomplish his will nonetheless—he does not need us.

      However, God uses means to accomplish his will for his people to believe. These means include a presenation of the Gospel, encouraging words, and instruction.

      Notice what Paul says:

      And we proclaim Him, admonishing every man and teaching every man with all wisdom, that we may present every man complete in Christ. (Col 1:28 NAS)

      Teaching was high on the list of priority to Paul in presenting someone “complete in Christ.”

      As well, the primary thing I recognize about these people who depart (and truly depart) is how hard it was for them to leave Christ. There is a long time of depression that causes them to miss Christ. In other words, they don’t really want to leave at first. It hurts them deeply. Yet, they simply don’t find the answers and in the contention for people’s minds, when we lose, it is serious.

    • Joshua Allen

      @pastoraarn – Charismatics are another good one. I knew one guy whose mother was a charismatic, and always embarrassed him in front of friends with talk about her visions from God. True story — she once had a vision from God that told her that she was supposed to seduce her doctor (who was married). She had many visions like this, and basically pursued the doctor to the point of stalking, and it ended only when he left town. My friend was a really intelligent guy, and grew up being a very articulate defender of the reasonableness of atheism (and still loved his mother very much). But nobody can tell me that his doubts weren’t precipitated by his mother’s batty behavior.

    • Mike

      I really don’t think it is intellectual at all. Sorry Michael, but the root of people’s engagement in the faith begins in the heart and it stays in the heart. Revelation 2:4-5 I had a pile of knowledge, but my own love strayed.

      I strongly agree with you that we should build the discipleship and knowledge into people’s faith early on, but if the heart isn’t changed, people will leave. I believe there’s going to be a great shaking out in the church in these difficult times ahead.

      I think the best incentive is if all the teachers bear witness that they are really in love with Messiah. People are attracted to love stories!

    • Ed Kratz

      Cheryl,

      Yes, I do agree that this is a serious problem in the church. However, if someone has a strong intellectual conviction that Christ rose and that the Bible is reliable, the actions of other Christians will not effect the foundations of their faith and they will not ultimatly walk away from their beliefs.

      But, what you have said is a big problem in the “back door” policies of local churches.

      Those that I have studied have never really blamed the ultimate loss of their faith on social issues, though it does come up from time to time and legitimize their raising emotional charge.

    • Joshua Allen

      @CMP – Yeah, I think we need to be teaching our kids theology. But if we start only when they have trust issues, we start too late, since the questions are often a proxy for the trust issues.

      And IMO the *approach* you take to theology is more important for kids than the *content*. Let’s contrast your approach with the approach of some other fictional person.

      Your approach to theology — you show a great deal of humility, you explain why you believe a certain way on an issues while allowing for alternate opinions. You’re systematic, yet open to new perspectives. In short, your *approach* to theology is trustworthy and sincere. Even if I think you are wrong on a specific issue, and even if you have flaws, I trust you and I trust the process.

      Others’ approach to theology — make assertions and demand intellectual assent. Say that anyone who disagrees is spawn of Satan. Speak on behalf of God (whether through charismatic visions, extending the Bible to cover geology, etc.). Lie to the children to “scare them straight”; tell them that the earth will swallow them if they use the Lord’s name in vain. Make the stakes of your “theology” very, very, very high. KJVOnlyism.

      While both are engaged in theology, it’s pretty easy to predict what happens to the second guy’s children.

    • cherylu

      Thanks CMP, you answered my question. I have just seen such a huge problem in this area, that I wondered how often, it at all, it comes up in what people are saying about leaving.

    • Ed Kratz

      Josh, you are right. It needs to start very early. As I watch some people interact with their children about the faith, I can (I feel) pretty easily spot those who are being primed for problems later on. It is the choke hold that we think we must place on intellectual freedom that primes future doubt and abandonment.

    • Brett

      I think we should should literally keep a “stiff backbone,” when we are having literal back problems; but this, stonewalling it, isn’t a suitable strategy, even metaphorically, when we seem to encounter apparent intellectual problems in our religion.

      Instead, when we discover many are not convinced, and discover strong reasons for that, I think believers should simply become more humble, less adamant, about their their own theology. We should “confess” our own sins and inaquacies; and acknowledge modestly that there are many different theologies.

      We might even acknowledge that those who seem “outside” the church in our opinion, might still be close to God and Truth in some way; even closer than we are.

    • JRoach

      I think Jesus summed it up when he taught the Parable of the Soils. Promising people that the Chrisitian life is easy can lead them to believe that their problems are over. When they encounter a “Job” experience they get disillusioned. The television evangelists promise health and riches. When the new “convert” is stricken with health and finance issues they get disillusioned. Heaven is our reward and we must suffer just as Christ and the disciples had to suffer. I think the phrase “Perseverance of the Saints” is a good test for genuine faith.

    • Frank!

      They do take a long time, hence my desire to teach. I would have for people to deal with these things when there are ways out. I would also add, some teens I know are just apathetic. They never see the richness of the faith or what it means.

    • Ken Pulliam

      Michael,

      As you know, I am one of those who left the Christian faith. I can’t speak for anyone but myself but in my case, it was intellectual reasons. You can’t say that I wasn’t grounded in theology. I have a Ph.D. in Theology from one of the most conservative schools around. I taught in a Bible college for 9 years and was a Pastor after that for 2 years. I spent around 20 years as a devoted follower of Christ. Over the last 4 years of my Christian experience, my faith slowly evaporated. I found myself one day totally without belief.

      Today, I am convinced that evangelical theology cannot stand the test of rigorous critical examination. It can, IF you have already predetermined that nothing will convince you of its falsity. For example, Bill Craig says that no evidence would ever convince him that his Christianity is false, because of the inner witness of the Spirit. So, he is not really being honest with the evidence. He is sifting through it looking for what confirms his beliefs and throwing out or explaining away that which is against his belief system. I did that too for years but finally I realized that I had to be intellectually honest.

      Now since you are a Calvinist and you don’t think a true believer could ever really fall away, then why are you concerned? It seems you ought to be glad that the chaff is being separated from the wheat even before the day of judgment.

    • Ed Kratz

      John,

      I certianly don’t presume to know the whats and whys of the turns you took. And I am certianly not saying that if we dot all our i’s and cross all our t’s these thing will never happen. What I am saying is that the education process in the church does not normally allow for the sorts of faith exploration (especially at an intellectual level) that are needed for everyone. Therefore, we set ourselves up for such things to occur.

      When you say, “I have a Ph.D. in Theology from one of the most conservative schools around. I taught in a Bible college for 9 years and was a Pastor after that for 2 years.” This really does not do anything as far as telling what happened as it is often the education of the “consevatives” that set things up. This is especially the case with most “Fundamentalist” education.

      Thanks for adding your words.

    • Ken Pulliam

      Michael,

      I don’t know what you mean by “its often the education of the conservative that sets things up.”

      As far as the term “fundamentalist,” I would consider Dallas Seminary to be in that camp as well. Maybe not with some of the peripheral issues but definitely from a doctrinal standpoint.

    • mbaker

      You know true discipling, and I’m talking about the kind Christ gave His disciples, is sorely lacking in the body of Christ nowadays, whether we are intellectually aware, or experience oriented. Somehow we need to stop the tug of war between the two extremes and get back to the true in depth study of what it means to be Christians, as least as Christ defines us.

      Salvation is a first step. It is important to get folks saved, but that carries with a responsibility to be aware enough of the theological questions to answer them in depth without just saying it’s just about grace, or election, or freedom of choice, or whatever we believe denominationally, and get back to a biblical quorum somehow if we are going to plant the seed on fertile ground, and see a lasting crop from it.

    • Ed Kratz

      Ken, you are right to some degree about the tradition that DTS holds and its doctrinal statement, but I would say that the education that one recieves in the last 10 years (outside of one department that I won’t mention) is very strong and fosters the type of thought that is necessary to overcome some of the problems involved.

      But, the problem starts much earlier than seminary, I believe.

    • Ken Pulliam

      Allow me to make one more observation, I think one of the big reasons that people are departing from the faith more today is because of the internet. People are able to read and find information that previously had to be “dug out” in a research library if it could be found at all.

      When the printing press was invented, it meant big problems for the Catholic Church. Information could be disseminated more widely and more quickly. Its much more so with the intenet. I think it is and will prove to be a big problem for all religions.

    • Ken Pulliam

      Michael,

      I think the problem with any institution that requires allegiance to a doctrinal statement is that it does not allow one any real intellectual freedom. That is not to say there are not intellectuals in these schools. Nor is it to say that the academic requirements are not high, they are. However, as I mentioned earlier with Craig, everything is filtered through a predetermined set of beliefs.

    • Ed Kratz

      Ken, I agree. The obscurantist mentality that we have nourished for so long is being revealed in the information age.

    • Ed Kratz

      Ken, I also agree that the docrinal statements of these institutions need to losen up. But it ain’t going to happen for the next decade or so. Too much old money invested.

    • Dale

      I’m still a believer and I had to disavow some of the teachings of my church to stay that way.
      One of the big ones: you have to have a morning devotional. It will change your life and if you don’t you are going to be spiritually weak.

      My life didn’t change except for the obvious fact that God wasn’t working miracle in my life because of my morning study. In fact there was no difference in my life that I could notice. The only thing I got out of a it was a furthering of my impression that the Christians lied to me again.

    • Joel Robertson

      Thank you for your openness on this very difficult topic. My sense is that most people in evangelical circles are really marginalized from meaningful involvement. Many people I talk to in our church feel superfluous to the functioning of the body. They often feel like warm bodies dropping checks in the plates to keep the church programs going. Our churches have many programs, but very few people I sit with in the pew fit these programs. For example, I wonder how many people completing the TTP program find any significant avenue of service in their home church. Very frequently the only avenue of service suggested is something like directing traffic in the church parking lot on Sunday. Marginalized people begin searching for meaning and answers. Then the “unanswerable” questions and serious doubts arise.

      The real question to ask is how we are involved in sharing with one another so we feel free to meaningfully serve and pursue difficult questions together.

      God bless you! Keep on doing what you’re doing!

    • Lee H

      Thanks for the great post.

      I agree that there seems to be a lack intelletual answers in the evangelical church at the moment (well mine at least).

      Do you think it is possible that the intellectual problems are main problem? From my own experience (of my currect self) I feel I am only on a ‘Step 2’ on the intellectual problems, yet I seem to be becomming more apathetic about morality. In fact though I do have intellectual problems the reason I will fall away from the church (if I do when I go to University in a few months) will be because I want to escape the morality of the Bible and Church. In fact the real problem is becomming that I don’t know if I want to be brought back to full faith if I could be. Sadly that sounds alot like apathy, but not for intellectual reasons.

      The things is I would only show my intellectual problems when talking to a church leader who knew me about this. So are intellectual problems the real problem? I suppose it could be for some.

    • JohnCW

      Michael – I think you understand the problem but i’m not sure you have the solution.

      Right now I’m in the apathy stage [very close to atheism]

      I’ve watched all of your TTP videos, and I really enjoyed your inclusive approach [protestant, RC, and orthodox views]. For the most part, you are intellectually honest and rigorous.

      I was a true believer and will take anyone to task who claims that I wasn’t – I believed with all of my heart and I experienced “God” – I had a personal relationship with Jesus – and I took God’s word very seriously.

      My journey of Questions is too long to describe here, but the reality is that no religion has answers to those questions.

    • Ed Kratz

      Thanks John,

      You are right, I don’t really have a solution. I am just attempting to call upon the church to take this possible problem out of the mix. In the end, I believe that it is a real mystery and there is no one size fits all to the problems that have arisen.

      I do believe that the lack of serious intellectual engagement and the validating of questions asked tend to make the church irrelavent in the mind of many when search for the truth.

      I am sorry to hear that you are where you are. Stories such as yours make me pick up my “fix-it” mentality. Unfortunately, even TTP will not “fix” every issue.

      May God be with you in your search and may Christians have understanding rather than judgmental condemnation.

    • Ed Kratz

      Dale, there are more people than you know who would say nothing but “amen” to what you have said.

    • Steve

      I read an article recently that made a point over young people leaving the church that was related to politics. The gist of the article was that the young people related the church to republicans and they felt that republicans were intolerant of many people in society. I think one of the things the church needs to do is to be very careful about how it handles politics. As soon as you lean towards one party or the other on a culture like ours, you basically forfeit the opportunity to tell half the population about Jesus.

    • Michael T.

      Re: 27
      Just a comment (I assume by Bill Craig you mean William Lane Craig). I’m not sure the fact that Bill Craig believes belief in God is warranted in the absence of hard evidence (which I think is a philosophically defensible position btw, though I certainly believe there is evidence as well) affects the validity of his philosophical arguments elsewhere. This seems to be non-sequitar. They either fall or stand on their own. Simply because he assumes God is real and then seeks to prove this doesn’t invalidate his arguments anymore then it invalidates those of a atheist who believes God is a hoax and tries to prove that.

      Ultimately I don’t think there is any more “intellectual honesty” on the atheist side then there is on the theist side. They both have their presuppositions and beliefs they are trying to prove. For instance when a atheist simply states that “there is not nor is it possible for their to be anything supernatural” they are being just as intellectually dishonest as someone who starts with the presupposition that “Jesus Christ is the Son of God and rose from the dead”. Neither one is in an ivory tower without presuppositions. They are both down in the mud with each other.

    • Is part of the problem the Christians who remain including the Christian leadership is unwilling to wrestle with why we believe what we believe and what it is. I started out an agnostic and ended up becoming a Christian because it was the view that made sense to me but I also ended up holding a nonstandard doctrinal position because I was not willing to fit the denominational pigeonholes. Are people not willing to think things through and therefore unable to deal with the questions of those who are doubting?

    • eric

      Hi KEN PULLIAM
      #27 #29 #32 #33

      I am curious when you stated that ” you left because of intellectual reasons.” Would you please give me one or two of your major reason (s) why you left intellectually?

    • Ed Kratz

      Ken, its cool if you answer Eric, but (to all) I don’t want this post turning into a debate about all his points.

    • Brett

      I’d like to hear more from Ken too; no need for debates or arguments for now.

    • Truth Unites... and Divides

      On a related topic, doesn’t the Bible speak to a growing apostasy in the Church?

      As an aside, I don’t take offense at evangelists of unbelief. Nor do I get defensive.

      They may think it’s intellectual suicide to be a Christian, and therefore, they can’t remain a Christian. I’m on the other side of the chasm: I think it’s intellectual suicide to become an atheist or an agnostic.

      I never want to be them or where they are. And they really don’t want to be where I’m at as a Bible-believing Christian. And that’s just the way it is.

      Eventually, every knee shall bow and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is King.

      Parable of the four soils. Observation, for better or worse, a lot of pastors spend time cultivating the fruitful soil.

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